Here I am, literally over a year after I decided to start blogging. The idea to share with others the wonders of marriage and family life kept pushing me to write, but the fear in my mind was so powerful I couldn’t type a single word for an entire year. I am sitting here today, confident that I will write… Read More
Before getting married, we all went through a stage in which we imagined that, once married, our problems would be solved. If you got married recently, you already realized that fantasy is just that, a fantasy. If you've been married for years, you'll probably be laughing at how childlike those thoughts were. I can still remember of how, when I was engaged to my husband, I used to let my mind wonder before falling asleep thinking about my future life as a married woman: full of sex, perfect children, my husband and I having the same opinions, etc. Now that I am married, it is not that my present and my perspective of the future are not perfect but, I realize that my husband and I are different people and with different tastes and aspirations, but with the same desires to love our differences and work together in strengthening our relationship daily.
Now that you and I have another perspective being in marriage relationships, it is necessary to make adjustments and strengthen skills to ensure that our marriages grows and are protected from any adversity, even within the walls of our homes. In this section you will find information and ideas on how to do that.
What to expect from this section?
In this section you will find principles, experiences, realities, etc. of marriage. When a person seeks information and advice to improve and/or keep their marriage safe, it is necessary to keep an open and, above all, cautious mind. Only you know your personal situation and it may be that some of the things mentioned here are not related to what you need, but I am sure that each of the things here are important and informative.
Also, because marriages go through different experiences depending on the stages in which they are, I think it necessary to include two perspectives in this section. The first will be based on newlyweds perspective and the second on older marriages or who have already passed through years of marriage.
In the same way, I consider it extremely important that you include your spouse in the study and application of this section. One of the fundamental things for the success of a marriage is the communication between husband and wife. While it is true that success in life begins with oneself, success in marriage is different. Both husband and wife have to agree and work together or, otherwise, a stagnation or even the loss of that marriage bond could occur.
Finally,I understand that most people find these types of blogs as sources of erroneous or incomplete information, so it is important for me to stay true to you. I want you to feel free to know that the information you find here has been carefully studied and put into practice. So, if you have any questions, suggestions or clarification, please do not hesitate to contact me. Enjoy!